I wrote and published this short piece in 2016 as a Facebook post. I took this picture while on vacation in Virginia Beach in 2014 or 2015. I saw this ‘weed’ growing through a crack in the asphalt. It symbolized to me that no…
Apr
20
Keep a Soft Heart
Sep
29
Beware of Shady People
I am a peace-loving gal who is also a fighter. I will fight for truth & justice for all. Do right by others and we’ll get along famously. Don’t, and we have a problem. There are too many folks out there hyping and…
Sep
3
Unmet expectations…
Unmet expectations and your wants actually can create stress and uneasiness within you. Such as wanting someone to be more available or connected to you, or wanting the phone to ring, or even wanting to have more – more money, more friends, more…
Aug
4
YOU KNOW YOU
Confusion. Doubt. Insecurity. Inferiority. We all have these feelings thru our lives in many areas of our lives and at various times during our lives. Rest in the fact that you are not unique in that. What is unique is not to blame…
Jul
31
Think For Yourself
There are tons of mentors out there offering tips, tricks, and advice on this, that, and the other thing in life. Following and listening to a mentor can be and usually is beneficial, but don’t forget to think for yourself. Only YOU know…
Jun
16
Turn It OFF!
I’ve unsubscribed or “unliked” and unfollowed and hidden ALL of the political and “news” Facebook pages that I’d previously watched. I gotta tell ya – 1 – my newsfeed is calmer and 2 – I am calmer. These pages promote fear. They report…
Jun
14
Loss & Grief
written a week or so ago… Any loss creates feelings of grief. The death of a loved one. Loss of a relationship or a significant friendship. Loss of a cherished possession. They all create a feeling of grief. Processing grief has five stages: …
Jun
6
Love Bank Deposits…
If someone you love continually makes withdrawals from your Love Bank without making deposits, then you need to assess your account. Sometimes people will make continuous withdrawals without even noticing that they aren’t making deposits. If you bring this to their attention and…
Jun
5
STOP the BS
Why do men (women, too) lie and deceive? Why not be truthful & authentic? Deceit only delays the inevitable and causes undue harm. Why fake stuff, especially matters of the heart or things involving your kids? Tell the damned truth! One the other…
