If someone you love continually makes withdrawals from your Love Bank without making deposits, then you need to assess your account. Sometimes people will make continuous withdrawals without even noticing that they aren’t making deposits. If you bring this to their attention and they continue withdrawing only, maybe it’s time to reevaluate if their name belongs on your Love Bank account.
Only you know when your account is overdrawn. So, only you can decide when enough is enough. Sometimes this is a very tough decision.
When we love someone so deeply, we can actually lose sight of ourselves and our boundaries. Before we know it, we’ve become a welcome mat or worse yet – disposable. They come & go at their leisure. That’s not good either.
Check YOUR behavior. Are you enabling the withdrawals without deposits? Sometimes, we give and give and give then over time we realize our mistakes that helped create the deficit in our Love Bank. If you have contributed innocently to the bad banking behaviors, make the necessary changes immediately. Don’t allow yourself to go bankrupt. You can turn pennies into millions. Make the changes before it’s too late.
Love yourself enough to consistently check your Love Account Balances. ♥
