It seems that everyone wants to mask the pain instead of healing it. Sad? You must be depressed. Take a pill. Marriage messy? Pill, drugs, or drink it away. Injury? Pill, drugs, alcohol Broken heart? Get right back in there, replace, no time…
Aug
15
Feel It to Heal It
Jun
16
Turn It OFF!
I’ve unsubscribed or “unliked” and unfollowed and hidden ALL of the political and “news” Facebook pages that I’d previously watched. I gotta tell ya – 1 – my newsfeed is calmer and 2 – I am calmer. These pages promote fear. They report…
Jun
14
Loss & Grief
written a week or so ago… Any loss creates feelings of grief. The death of a loved one. Loss of a relationship or a significant friendship. Loss of a cherished possession. They all create a feeling of grief. Processing grief has five stages: …
Jun
6
Love Bank Deposits…
If someone you love continually makes withdrawals from your Love Bank without making deposits, then you need to assess your account. Sometimes people will make continuous withdrawals without even noticing that they aren’t making deposits. If you bring this to their attention and…
Jun
5
STOP the BS
Why do men (women, too) lie and deceive? Why not be truthful & authentic? Deceit only delays the inevitable and causes undue harm. Why fake stuff, especially matters of the heart or things involving your kids? Tell the damned truth! One the other…
May
29
What Matters…..
Life changes in an INSTANT. There are NO guarantees that tomorrow we will be here, or for how long. So, TELL the people you care about HOW you feel about them. SHOW people your truth. HUG people who need it…even if you feel…
Apr
27
Navigating Disappointments
Disappointments are inevitable in life. They are born from expectations. “Expectation breeds disappointment.” This is VERY true. However, I don’t know any human being who is without expectations of some kind. It could be expectations in the behaviors of your children or expectations…
Click on this link to read more. PLEASE consider helping us. This IS a HUGE deal! Help Get My Son David to the National Youth Bowling Championships! I could go into details and paint you one hell of a sob story, but I’ll…
I recently saw an article stating 6 ways to stop your on-again/off again relationship. I didn’t read it. LOL It did prompt this: I will offer you one way to put an end to your on-again/off-again relationship. Just end it. Be done. Be polite.…
Mar
4
Racism affects EVERYONE.
There is SO MUCH hubbub about this in recent years. Racism affects EVERYONE. Whites, Blacks, Yellows, Reds, Greens, Blues, Purples…Christians, Jewish, Muslims, even Buddhists. It affects ALL PEOPLE. Not one section of society is racism-free. If you think that “your group” is completely…
