I wrote and published this short piece in 2016 as a Facebook post. I took this picture while on vacation in Virginia Beach in 2014 or 2015. I saw this ‘weed’ growing through a crack in the asphalt. It symbolized to me that no…
Apr
20
Keep a Soft Heart
Patience. It’s not one of my strong traits. But if something is important enough to you, you must be patient…and unrelenting. Unrelenting in putting yourself out there, doing what you must to achieve your desire. Whether it’s business or love, you have to…
Sep
3
Unmet expectations…
Unmet expectations and your wants actually can create stress and uneasiness within you. Such as wanting someone to be more available or connected to you, or wanting the phone to ring, or even wanting to have more – more money, more friends, more…
Aug
15
Feel It to Heal It
It seems that everyone wants to mask the pain instead of healing it. Sad? You must be depressed. Take a pill. Marriage messy? Pill, drugs, or drink it away. Injury? Pill, drugs, alcohol Broken heart? Get right back in there, replace, no time…
Jun
14
Loss & Grief
written a week or so ago… Any loss creates feelings of grief. The death of a loved one. Loss of a relationship or a significant friendship. Loss of a cherished possession. They all create a feeling of grief. Processing grief has five stages: …
Jun
12
You are the Spoon
Written on January 8, 2016. You can add cream & sugar to your coffee or tea but unless you stir it up, it sinks to the bottom of the cup and just sits there. Without stirring go ahead and take a sip;…
Jun
6
Love Bank Deposits…
If someone you love continually makes withdrawals from your Love Bank without making deposits, then you need to assess your account. Sometimes people will make continuous withdrawals without even noticing that they aren’t making deposits. If you bring this to their attention and…
Pain & hurt change people. Good stuff changes people, too; it makes them lighter in a sense. Pain changes them on a heavier level, weighing them down. Pain & hurt, intentional or not, causes a wound. An emotional wound. It’s not visible to…
