If someone you love continually makes withdrawals from your Love Bank without making deposits, then you need to assess your account. Sometimes people will make continuous withdrawals without even noticing that they aren’t making deposits. If you bring this to their attention and…
Jun
6
Love Bank Deposits…
May
29
What Matters…..
Life changes in an INSTANT. There are NO guarantees that tomorrow we will be here, or for how long. So, TELL the people you care about HOW you feel about them. SHOW people your truth. HUG people who need it…even if you feel…
Pain & hurt change people. Good stuff changes people, too; it makes them lighter in a sense. Pain changes them on a heavier level, weighing them down. Pain & hurt, intentional or not, causes a wound. An emotional wound. It’s not visible to…
Apr
27
Navigating Disappointments
Disappointments are inevitable in life. They are born from expectations. “Expectation breeds disappointment.” This is VERY true. However, I don’t know any human being who is without expectations of some kind. It could be expectations in the behaviors of your children or expectations…
Apr
21
Forgiveness…..
Forgiveness is a daily grind for many. We have to consciously make the effort to forgive some situations and people. It is exhausting but don’t grow weary. It will take time but eventually you will reap the rewards of peace in your heart…
Mar
25
The Insanity of It All
The media is making me crazy. The people of America are making me crazy. WHY can we not just get along with each other? Don’t we teach our children to use their words and to talk things out? Yet adults do the opposite…
Mar
25
Racism and Privileged
I’m a white Caucasian with ancestry of Germans, Scottish, Irish, and probably more. What does that make me? I’m so tired of seeing/reading/hearing things that whites are racists simply because they’re white. SERIOUSLY? Wake up! You are racist if you mistreat and degrade…
Mar
4
Racism affects EVERYONE.
There is SO MUCH hubbub about this in recent years. Racism affects EVERYONE. Whites, Blacks, Yellows, Reds, Greens, Blues, Purples…Christians, Jewish, Muslims, even Buddhists. It affects ALL PEOPLE. Not one section of society is racism-free. If you think that “your group” is completely…
Jan
2
Choose LIFE and LIVE it
It’s not “all or nothing”. Life is about finding balance. There are so many things in life that we need to do and want to do but there are only 24 hours in each given day. Remember, these days are given, not guaranteed. …
